Swingers clubs in Valencia: BarSwinger's guide

Valencia is Spain's third-largest city and one of the few that blends beach, old town and nightlife so easily. Its lifestyle scene is smaller than Madrid's or Barcelona's, but it has a quality of its own: two very different formats a short ride apart, a relaxed swingers pub and a mixed sauna with unusually low prices. This guide gathers our selection of swingers and lifestyle clubs in Valencia, using the information each venue publishes on its official website, so you can choose with confidence.

At BarSwinger we do not score or rank venues as if they were league tables. We tell you what sets each one apart, who it may suit best and what to check before you go. Prices and opening hours change often, so treat the details in this guide as a starting point and always confirm them on each venue's website.

How lifestyle nights work in Valencia

In Valencia the format is set less by the clock than by the type of venue. The swingers pub works like a bar with a different programme each day: the night revolves around the bar, the music and the relaxation areas. The mixed sauna works in long afternoon and evening blocks, with an entry ticket that usually includes something (in our selection, soft drinks).

Another common trait is that the day of the week changes the atmosphere. There are nights for single guests, lingerie nights, parties with music and dancing, and quiet Sundays. Checking the programme before you head out is the best way to find the night you are looking for.

The city helps, too. Valencia is easy to get around and easy to start early: the Ruzafa district, which the city's tourist board describes as Valencia's “Soho”, is known for tardeo, the late-afternoon plan that slides into the evening. Having dinner or a drink there before heading to a club is a relaxed way to begin.

Flamingos Swinger

Flamingos is a swingers pub on Calle José Aguirre which, according to its official website, is open every day except Mondays. It is aimed mainly at couples, but it also welcomes open-minded single guests and sets Thursdays aside for them.

What sets it apart: every day has its own format. Fridays are lingerie nights, Saturdays are themed parties with music and dancing, Sundays are for relaxing with drinks and the jacuzzi, and Wednesday sessions start in the afternoon. Among its spaces, the website lists a jacuzzi, a lounge room and a French corridor. The club stresses respect, safety, consent and open communication, and explains its rules on arrival.

Who it suits: couples who prefer a pub atmosphere, closer and less formal than a lifestyle nightclub, and single guests who want to go on a night designed for them.

Practical notes: it only answers enquiries by WhatsApp or email, not by phone. The rates it publishes for couples run from €20 to €50 depending on the day and time, with drinks included, and there are member discounts and promotions. Guests must be over 18 and the venue reserves the right of admission.

Oasis Valencia

Oasis is a mixed lifestyle sauna on Calle Centelles, right in the Ruzafa district. It opens every day: Monday to Thursday from 3 pm to 11 pm, Fridays from 4 pm to 2:30 am, Saturdays from 6 pm to 2:30 am and Sundays from 5 pm to midnight.

What sets it apart: its pricing. According to its website, couples' rates are among the lowest in the sector (from €10 to €30 depending on the day) and every ticket includes free non-alcoholic drinks. It admits couples, single women and single men, and also sells a dedicated ticket for groups of three. On Thursdays it runs a themed session aimed at group play.

Who it suits: anyone who prefers the sauna format, with long afternoon hours, over a night at a lifestyle club, and anyone after an affordable plan in the centre.

Practical notes: its website does not detail the venue's areas, so if you are looking for something specific it is worth asking by phone or on social media before you go.

How to choose between these venues

If you want a night with music, drinks and a pub atmosphere with a jacuzzi, Flamingos has a different proposal every day. If you prefer the sauna format, with afternoon hours and an inexpensive ticket that includes soft drinks, Oasis is the most direct choice. Many couples who are new to the scene start with a quiet afternoon at the sauna and save the pub for another time.

Tips for your visit

• Check the programme: pick the day according to the atmosphere and the type of access you are after. At Flamingos, for instance, Thursday is the day for single guests.
• Consent comes first: every serious venue follows the same rule: nothing happens without a clear yes, and a no is accepted without argument.
• Phones and photos: ask about the venue's policy and respect it. Protecting everyone's privacy is part of the etiquette.
• Message ahead: Flamingos only answers by WhatsApp or email, and at Oasis it helps to ask about the areas you are interested in.
• Getting around: Valencia has a metro, trams and city buses, but night service varies by day. Check the schedules on the official transport app and plan a taxi or ride-hailing trip home if you leave in the small hours.
• No rush: your first visit can simply be for a drink and a look around. Nobody is obliged to do anything.

Frequently asked questions

What is the difference between a swingers pub and a lifestyle sauna in Valencia?

The pub works like a bar with a daily programme, music and relaxation areas. The sauna runs in long afternoon and evening blocks, with a ticket that usually includes a drink. Choose according to the atmosphere you want.

How much does it cost to go to a swingers club in Valencia?

It depends on the venue, the day and the time. In our selection, the published couples' rates run from €10 to €30 at the sauna and from €20 to €50 at the pub, with drinks or soft drinks included. Always confirm on the official website.

Can single people go?

Yes, with conditions. Flamingos welcomes open-minded single guests and has a day dedicated to them; Oasis admits single women and single men. Conditions change by day, so check before you go.

Do I need to book?

Neither venue presents booking as mandatory on its website. Even so, Flamingos only answers by WhatsApp or email, and on special dates it is wise to write beforehand.

The details in this guide come from the information each venue publishes on its official website and were reviewed in November 2026. If you run one of these venues and want to update your information, you can claim your listing on BarSwinger.