Open Love 101: swinger lifestyle blog, videos and podcast

Open Love 101 is an English-language site about swinging, polyamory and open relationships, run by John and Jackie Melfi. It says it has been answering readers' questions from couples and singles in the lifestyle since 2015. This profile explains its formats and one point of context readers should know.

Who is behind Open Love 101

The site names John and Jackie Melfi and states that they own and operate Colette lifestyle clubs (openlove101.com, consulted 7 November 2026). That is relevant: the educational content comes from people who also run commercial venues, so read it with that in mind. A podcast listing also credits them as hosts of The Openlove101 Show (Podnews).

What it offers

• Blog. Articles on relationships, sex and dating, and newcomers, usually signed by Jackie or by both hosts.
• Video. A YouTube channel organised in categories such as Relationships, Newbies/Curious, Health and Wellness and "Ask John and Jackie".
• Podcast. A podcast section on the site.
• Books and coaching. A book of common lifestyle questions and paid one-to-one sessions.
• Membership and free guide. A paid community called Openlove101+ and a free guide for first-time club visitors.

Why it can help

The newcomer material is the strongest part: it is built around the questions first-timers actually ask, from etiquette to expectations. We recommend using it as one input among several and, as always, confirming a venue's own rules before visiting.

Good to know

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FAQ

Is it suitable for beginners?

Yes, it has a dedicated newcomer section and a free club guide.

Is everything free?

No. There is free blog and video content, and paid coaching and membership.

How can I contact them?

Through the contact form at openlove101.com/contact.

About this article: based on content Open Love 101 publishes on its official channels (sources linked, consulted on 7 November 2026). If you are part of the project and want to correct something, give us an interview or request removal, write to us through BarSwinger's "Notify" form.