Swingology: a lifestyle podcast on ethical non-monogamy

Swingology is an English-language podcast about ethical non-monogamy and the swinger lifestyle, hosted by Tori and Steve Kist. It started in 2024 and mixes personal stories with practical conversation for newcomers and for couples who have been in the lifestyle for years. Here is what it offers and who it suits.

Who is behind Swingology

The show is presented on its Buzzsprout page as hosted by Tori and Steve Kist, with the tagline "Stimulate Your Mind" (Buzzsprout, consulted 7 November 2026). The hosts say their aim is to explore the ethical non-monogamy community, break taboos and share real-life stories, with tips from experts and people who live outside traditional relationship boundaries. We only use the names the project itself publishes.

What you will find

• Audio and video episodes. At the time of writing the feed lists 29 episodes since 2024, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Amazon Music, plus a YouTube channel (@swingologypodcast).
• Recent topics. Episodes include "Single Men & Solo Husbands in the Swinger Lifestyle" (15 September 2026), "Is This the Best Swinger Place in Denver?" (26 July 2026) and "What We Really Think of the Swinger Lifestyle" (15 February 2026), along with travel recaps from a lifestyle cruise.
• Comparisons and basics. Earlier episodes such as "Swing vs Poly" tackle the differences between swinging and polyamory.

Why it is useful

Most of the value is in the conversation around the club night: how couples set boundaries, how single men can behave respectfully, and how to choose a venue. That matches our own advice that communication comes before any visit. As with any show, the hosts speak from personal experience, so treat opinions about specific venues as one view and check each venue's official policy before you go.

Good to know

The podcast is explicit in language, so it is for adults only. The page also links merchandise and an adult-products shop; BarSwinger has no commercial relationship with Swingology and this article carries no sponsored links.

FAQ

Is Swingology for beginners?

Several episodes are aimed at the curious as well as experienced couples, so it works as a first listen.

Where can I listen?

On Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, by RSS or on the YouTube channel linked from the official page.

Can I contact the hosts?

Through the contact details on their official Buzzsprout page.

About this article: based on content Swingology publishes on its official channels (sources linked, consulted on 7 November 2026). If you are part of the project and want to correct something, give us an interview or request removal, write to us through BarSwinger's "Notify" form.